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On 01:10, 24 December 2007

209.55.74.84 said:

This article totally helped! I also loved the clothes at Abercrombie! I am one of the most popular at my school!

On 19:38, December 24, 2007

JoMan Was Here said:

???

On 19:41, December 24, 2007

JoMan Was Here said:

"In terms of composure, try not to stare (it makes people uncomfortable), stand/sit up straight (it makes you look and feel more confident), smile generously, be polite and considerate, etc."

All these traits are the opposite of cool where I'm from!

Cool people have staring contests all the time, no one stands or sits up straight, no one ever smiles (it's cool not to care here), and the cool people always shove around the nerds.

On 19:42, December 24, 2007

JoMan Was Here said:

Oh, and, "Nerdy Cool"? Wtf is that?!

On 07:13, 6 January 2008

68.74.29.89 said:

"That" happens to be me. I have friends that I love and they will never let me down. I only have 5 real friends so I'm definitely not "popular". I do well in school and I don't care if I'm wearing the latest trendy $500 jeans from some place that will soon be considered "so last week". I, yes I, am nerdy cool. Not the traditional popular bitch that everyone wants to be like. Not that geek with no friends that only cares about getting straight A's. I am the nerd that knows who my real friends are and where I'm going with my life.

On 21:34, 7 January 2008

76.64.53.96 said:

thnx...ill see if it helps :)

On 06:44, 12 January 2008

Thanks For the Memo said:

what the heck is with sondra C being on here? it's for youth. On the category page it distinctively says you have to be a youth to edit the categories.

And whatever you do, BE URSELF

On 01:52, 17 January 2008

Nathan Wong said:

No, it says that the articles in the category are all youth-orientated (this article isn't even *in* the youth category); encouraging young editors to contribute to them. There's no age discrimination :)

On 00:51, 27 January 2008

69.126.80.19 said:

I think it was cool.

On 22:56, 3 February 2008

83.131.61.83 said:

Nice, positive article...

On 04:10, 13 February 2008

74.222.192.193 said:

I work with young kids, like 5th and 6th graders... it is a hard time for them... we've been talking about what it means to be cool... this is so true. good advice!

On 12:50, 15 February 2008

12.202.196.175 said:

i red this article because im afraid who to my friends next year (in junior high). so i figured if i act cool the other cool people will come to me and be my friend

On 13:22, 18 February 2008

76.84.39.147 said:

This is an article about how to be cool written by some dweeb. Half the advice sounds like they are giving tips on how to get a Job at Quiznos or something ("be sure and smile a lot"), and the crap about being interesting ("don't be afraid to dance once in awhile") isn't actually about being interesting, it is about doing stuff that is "different" just for the sake of being "different" so you can appear "cool." But this isn't cool at all, it is lame. Really anyone who is cool could care less about any of these bits of advice.

On 00:41, 22 February 2008

68.151.58.252 said:

my dad keeps hitting me. does he care that much about his beer. and does that make him cool?

On 16:09, 2 March 2008

90.201.127.218 said:

i dont know

On 22:22, 3 March 2008

68.239.218.150 said:

i'm not cool

On 22:32, 3 March 2008

68.239.218.150 said:

i read some tips about bring cool. I want respect and people who are real friends. i have just 7 friends i have more the thing i don't get is that some people who you wan't to meet and your shy to talk to them i did that and i was shy at frist then they relized how i was at class quiet they begun to like me as a frind and then they called me the quiet boy. and then i began to be the coolest person at the class

On 22:34, 3 March 2008

68.239.218.150 said:

P.C i like your website and answers

On 22:11, 6 March 2008

Alexandrea said:

Dude, people with loud music just gets really really annoying, plus I don't like being cool, i like being popular

On 01:28, 12 March 2008

Sekakiari said:

This awsomely helped me im now more liked then i used too be

On 16:40, 19 March 2008

71.63.182.190 said:

it soud say be your self

On 15:09, 1 April 2008

165.155.200.82 said:

this rocks wikichikyyyyy!

On 19:38, 2 April 2008

76.3.161.183 said:

You know how to be cool? BE YOURSELF.

On 21:02, 3 April 2008

82.38.161.218 said:

i am a sad and lonly person now i still get tret like dirt but this helpt a little

On 10:21, 10 April 2008

59.184.30.72 said:

this article totally helped

On 03:57, 13 April 2008

208.124.52.57 said:

Thank you for the article! It helped alot.

On 17:53, 21 April 2008

70.161.173.198 said:

"be yourself" doesn't quite sum it up well enough. "be who you are" is the underlying key message behind the term. cool is just the amount of confidence exuded in someone who is content with who they are and know they in some way have sufficient qualities and attributes to appeal to people in various social scenes.(remember that these "scenes" of the popular kids are nothing more than strength in numbers;this also happens to be why their judgment of you being cool or not cool carries any weight) So in doing this, you start to embody a general sense of appeal, that you have something to offer. And just play the role. Nothing to lose, or at least nothing that they can take from you, and nothing to prove. just something to offer anyone who wants it(intangible).

On 17:48, 8 May 2008

75.68.238.187 said:

Being mean and making sure u have the best haircut around is the best way to be cool. I know because Im the coolese guy I know.

On 16:18, 9 May 2008

208.68.153.65 said:

what a bunch of stupid lifeless losers!!!!!

On 00:20, 14 May 2008

75.1.6.183 said:

dude all i want to know is how to get the girls

On 13:02, 30 May 2008

24.111.135.202 said:

ugh, people are so ignorant.

ooh, and this made me LAUGH.

"Don't tell anyone that you got all these things from the internet. Not cool."

On 16:03, 1 June 2008

24.189.183.100 said:

"Run with your back at a 100 degree angle. " What does that mean?

On 05:55, 14 June 2008

71.50.90.172 said:

being cool means to not be afended by most stuff

On 22:20, 15 June 2008

76.109.115.199 said:

I just talked to a friend that is going to the same summer acting class as I am, and she told me about some of the things that I had to do to fit in. After I got off the phone, I felt like I wasn't good enough and I really didn't want to embarass myself. I feel more self confident now that I read this article, THANKS!

On 19:44, 10 August 2008

Rock_princess_jenna_08 said:

I just talked to a friend that is going to the same summer acting class as I am, and she told me about some of the things that I had to do to fit in. After I got off the phone, I felt like I wasn't good enough and I really didn't want to embarass myself. I feel more self confident now that I read this article, THANKS!

On 22:50, 8 October 2008

^^^Rachel^^ said:

How to Be Cool:

1. Be who you are.

On 11:58, 20 October 2008

Mr handsome said:

WikiHow thanks all authors for creating a page that has been read 300,759 (it's changing)

On 14:26, 22 October 2008

195.189.142.181 said:

try not to imitate others otherwise you will be called a wannabe have your own style and quips and don't get sad if someone insults you its their fault

On 11:13, 6 November 2008

195.8.175.27 said:

I Hope this works...:)

On 17:21, 15 November 2008

71.7.251.247 said:

This article sucked.

On 20:54, 8 December 2008

99.234.239.137 said:

my opinion is just be your self. if ur popular and u wanna get a girl it won't happen it will follow u in the future

On 03:19, 10 December 2008

71.178.149.186 said:

it kind of helps...

On 21:48, 11 December 2008

24.128.127.16 said:

I don't care about coolness. I care bout being smart and a good human being and helping people in need. Coolness is not my priority. How do i know? Because I am not popular or cool.

On 03:18, 22 December 2008

69.130.236.28 said:

im NOT popular at all in fact i was crying last friday cuz this asshole who sits behind me was like "eew, its sydney." i think he said i should jump off a bridge or something dumb like that and then i yelled at this guy and this one girl that was nice to me becuz i wuz mad so yeah i mean yeah some people were like "whats wrong" and that was nice they were popular too =] but im gonna try this all 2morro and see if it helps get back 2 u 2moroo buhbye

On 02:47, 23 December 2008

69.130.236.28 said:

HOLY SHIT IT WORKED!!! POPULAR PEOPLE ACTUALLY TALKED TO ME!!! AND ONE OF THEM SAT AT MY TABLE!!! I LOVE THIS THING!!!

On 03:49, 3 January 2009

I_luv_cellphonz116 said:

I do not like the first step. If u wanna be cool then act nice and be empathetic and merciful when ppl get under ur skin. It seems to work for me.

On 10:42, 6 January 2009

59.188.230.239 said:

Its sounds like that the writer wants us (readers) to start being nerdy cool....

On 10:44, 6 January 2009

CyaniteExplosion said:

Exactly, what I am thinking, he must be some teacher, or mean guys, who wants us to be nerdy cool...........

On 01:22, 13 January 2009

195.154.108.128 said:

If I read the word 'cool' one more time I will definitely lose it!

On 22:39, 15 January 2009

68.36.43.166 said:

this helps i think i was being overly excited and annoying for being disruptive

On 00:04, 16 February 2009

70.75.79.202 said:

I stare too much...sometimes....even though im not staring...kind of like day dreaming (i'm not thinking about anything when this happens). How should I stop!!!!

On 18:06, 22 February 2009

80.189.250.17 said:

To be perfectly honest, this article is TERRIBLE! What is the first pic meant to be, or a cool person or a nerdy "uncool" peson?

On 22:14, 25 February 2009

79.73.148.204 said:

Hey, my input would be that although you will be against it, drinking (socially not binjing) will help your social life and also clothing does matter because its a conversation starter and peoples first impression of you wear smart casual is always a good one. keep showering, brushing etc i know you think thats all shallow but wanting to be cool is shallow, being cool is awesome

On 22:19, 25 February 2009

79.73.148.204 said:

this artical helped so much OMG someone actually spoke to me and i think there my friend, now my life isnt so pathetic YAYYY

On 20:46, 3 March 2009

119.30.120.251 said:

This is a cool article... ;-) now i know what in the real sense cool is.... it's not being like a shit...

As far as the friend part is concerned... i guess that a friend should be charming...helps u when u need it...and has good nature...it dosen't matter if he is nerdy or not...what matter is his character....

On 20:53, 7 March 2009

75.72.83.5 said:

sth

On 15:13, 14 March 2009

128.227.48.89 said:

To be cool, you have to pretend that you don't care about things even when you do. Being popular doesn't always mean being cool. And being cool isn't always all that, well, cool. People won't always think you're cool when you follow the "be yourself" advice, but the really awesome people you meet in your life will. It is way more cool in my books to be yourself--whether that's nerdy cool, geeky, or the most popular person in school--than to be "cool". That way you won't wake up one day and realize that no one knows who you really are and you truly are alone, even if you're surrounded by fake friends. That way you'll know that your friends are your real friends--people who think you're awesome because they know all the awesome stuff about YOU (not who you're trying to be), people who think you're awesome even though (and sometimes because) they know all the stuff about you that you think is "uncool," which is sometimes some of the coolest stuff.

On 16:20, 20 March 2009

89.204.227.210 said:

It wasn't completely accurate because it said good posture and cool people normally shrug their shoulders

On 21:55, 23 March 2009

75.164.159.157 said:

This isn't how to be cool!!!!!!!!!!11!1!!one

On 04:02, 5 April 2009

76.117.0.201 said:

a few dumbasses think they are cute and i'm sure they had a chuckle writing stupid shit. weak.

On 01:40, 24 April 2009

118.94.43.177 said:

This article really worked out for me..!!! thnxx

On 01:53, 28 April 2009

74.196.239.41 said:

great article im acting upon it now thanks!

On 07:09, 18 May 2009

72.35.117.99 said:

this article convinces people that it is okay to let yourself care about what other people think. its not right. i read the first two sentences of this article and it is a bad influence for people who want to help themselves.

On 05:28, 21 May 2009

71.111.123.26 said:

not the best advice

On 12:02, 24 May 2009

72.139.50.246 said:

All I ever needed to do in school to be "cool" (or known and liked by most people) was be myself: overly happy, hyperactive and funny. Most people in my school love that, but there is the scattered grump who hates my disposition and me. x)

This is a great article. Not only does it tell you how to be liked by others, it also tells you how to be liked by yourself. Having a good posture, smiling, and all of the things mentioned here are good for your personal health.

There are so many resources to other articles in here. A lot of effort went into building this wiki.

Lovely article overall.

On 04:51, 30 May 2009

59.178.155.172 said:

very helpful!

On 04:53, 30 May 2009

59.178.155.172 said:

coolness comew from within. Everyone knows from inside that being cool/confident/attractive or developing any positive trait develops from building our own moral values. Being moral is a 100% success formula for being cool...

On 02:46, 2 June 2009

202.27.193.29 said:

kwlio0 ! ,, great but you should have infomation on its not important being cool !! kause i rekn its not !!

On 02:46, 2 June 2009

202.27.193.29 said:

wata great tipz eh,, !!

On 23:58, 4 June 2009

77.99.128.136 said:

Nah, it's not about being moral - being cool is about not trying to be cool. Which paradoxically means the less you care about being cool the cooler you are.

On 23:03, 14 June 2009

90.193.8.49 said:

1. Your article is not about how to be cool. It't about how to be perfect. Your article, summed up, is basically: "Don't have any faults, and if you do have one, don't let it worry you"

Also, what the hell is not cool about premarital sex?

On 23:46, 14 June 2009

Whale Warrior said:

I don't really care if I'm cool or not.

On 00:03, 17 June 2009

70.149.251.212 said:

This was a well written article. I'm going to share it with all my students! Thanks to all the authors!

On 01:18, 18 June 2009

69.126.143.162 said:

too many tips...it doesnt seem easy

On 18:12, 26 June 2009

99.152.38.133 said:

this so did not work sucked

On 21:47, 26 June 2009

81.154.133.217 said:

to general and i followed all the tips and i am still uncool

On 21:29, 27 June 2009

69.243.235.145 said:

okay. numbers 1 & 2 totally contradict themselves lol.

so you're saying we shouldnt care what people say about us, and yet still be cautious of what they are going to say?just dumb. this is just teaching us how to be shallow people desperate to fit in...like every other teenager on the planet. sorry, but this isnt going to help anyone. atleast you tried i guess.

On 13:55, 29 June 2009

99.237.227.172 said:

Ha,Ha! This article is bull. Most cool people actually swear alot. This post should be How A Nerd Thinks People Should Be Cool. Gosh.

On 01:09, 2 July 2009

70.190.241.125 said:

wth? "dont care what others think of you" and right after "be aware of how others percieve you" i dont think you can do both!

On 14:04, 11 July 2009

77.222.9.143 said:

i dont know what to think...al this opinions in one...i still dont have my one...actually i think i am pretty cool..just i dont have much selfconfidance... P.C. dont speak english very well xD

On 17:47, 14 July 2009

69.215.130.200 said:

it sucks being cool means being popular or no one will like you

On 18:14, 15 July 2009

122.168.18.15 said:

sd

On 02:50, 17 July 2009

66.8.185.209 said:

The definition of "cool" is different in all regions, this article is just fine for wherever the author is from but it's pretty irrelivent for people on the opposite side of the continent.

On 04:20, 25 July 2009

66.156.108.72 said:

Well, cool to me is dressing with the most popular clothes. Wearing suspenders in the morning and pink on Fridays will always make people like you. They like people that dress outside of the box. They love for you to stare at them for long periods of time. It makes them think that they can be your friend, if you want them to.

Take it from me -- be cool! :)

The coolest kid EVER! Duh!

On 04:24, 25 July 2009

66.156.108.72 said:

I hate my life. Seriously.

On 00:30, 21 August 2009

99.254.12.242 said:

wtf happened?

On 15:53, 2 September 2009

Condorn1 said:

I think that this point should also be added that a cool person is not a very serious person. We should avoid seriousness in many events. And try to add funny attitude in our life.

On 19:35, 1 December 2009

192.146.191.92 said:

my question is, to all you people who say you're "cool". If you're so cool why are you reading a WIKIHOW article on how to be cool? I'd say if anything, you're the ones that have the problem.

On 08:34, 24 December 2009

Kere said:

Aw, come on. That sucked. All you need to do to learn how to be cool is to read everything I post on the Internet and you'll figure out for yourself. Me uber kewl.

Calm down people, I was joking.

Or maybe not. =)

On 21:29, 13 January 2010

76.122.200.28 said:

"195.154.108.128 said:If I read the word 'cool' one more time I will definitely lose it!" this is true....

I started a new school last week and although I didn't read the article then, I figured out most of these tips for myself. At my old school, I was kinda considered a dork. But once I did some of the stuff listed in the article, everyone was suddenly coming up to my table at lunch and all the guys started hitting on me. Even my guy friend noticed. I've done some modeling, and sitting up straight and smiling a lot definitely helps. I have to practice this stuff in order for it to become natural. I'm gifted, in other words a certifiable nerd, and most of the people in my gifted class are part of the most 'popular crowd'. There is a nerdy cool.



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