How to Develop Healthy Self Image
Hi Guys, I'm Tjong.. Today I want to share the idea of How to Develop "Healthy Self Image"..Maybe it's sound quite ridiculous but It's funny because sometimes we think other people have a great self confidence than what we hv, but they actually arent hv it too.. And it make us feel so bad with ourselves when we compare and compare to others'. Several days ago, my friend Jenn, share to me her reflection about this thing, and i think it's important to share it to u guys, so i will combine some of her opinion to mine about this thing..Okay, as you know, nobody perfect in this world. Jenn and I are totally not perfect.. Even some people whom u think they're perfect, they're not perfect, they're the same with us. Still struggling and walking toward the perfection..Maybe insecurity is the big issue for some people especially for young people who still confuse or not to care about what is the purpose of their life..We found there are 5 things to help you guys to Develop your Healthy Self Image or to Build your Self Confidence..
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1Have a Good Feeling About Yourself.. (It's not talking about a good mood, but it refers to your acceptance toward yourself. Sometimes we care too much about what other people would think or react to us. And it leads to insecurity.. We try to be as good as they're wish, but unwittingly we are not be our own selves.. FYI, In Fact, nobody else care about your insecurity as much as you did, and nobody else can affected you, as much as u can, if u tell yourself that u hate yourself, just because you are not perfect, you are in the wrong path..)
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2Put Down Your Pride.. (In my opinion, THE PRIDE is just a mask we usually use to cover our insecurity or disability.. People put their pride to the display so others may think that they're strong/great. But Lately I've learned that the GREAT one NEVER proves anything.. Pride just leads you to SELFISHness.. So, It's better to be humble and encourage others to be the best them, than to show off unimportant things..)
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3Learn From Others' Thinking.. (Maybe you can read some motivational books or hear some audio inspirational things.. Whatever, but the point is, Learn how they can Change the way of their thinking, how they boost themselves to be more productive, or simply how to manage/plan their daily life.. )
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4Do only things which have the most Impact.. (It's important to have time for reflect your own self.. Take some minutes to think about everything which can leverage your life value.. Dont do thing just because everyone else does it.. If it is really not necessary, or it isn't worth doing, then there's no reason to do it.. Remember, your resources are limited, so invest them only on things that give you the most return..)
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5Having Faith in God.. (As a believer, I have God to trust to.. when I feel alone or my heart is troubled, I talk to God..He knows me, He cares about me and He bring me peace.. I know I'm not perfect, Yea you know my English also not as good as you have maybe, Physically I'm also not as good as you are guys, I'm totally not perfect, but I know that God firstly love me and I'm just okay and accept all these imperfection.. He also teach me to RECONCILE with my past, my sins, my bad habit, my self and He head me to leave that and look for the brighter future.. He create the most Good Impact to my life..)
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