How to Stop Judging and Criticizing People

Edited by Tina, Sondra C, Arun, Jonathan E. and 10 others

Have you been told that you need to watch your mouth or mind your own business or even to go jump off a cliff because you're so judgmental and rude? You need to become more positive and polite, continue reading to see how!

EditSteps

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Every time that you see something to insult about, think whether the person will be offended by the insult. If not, give them constructive criticism gently. If yes, say nothing at all.

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When a person walks by you, don't judge them stereotypically. Remember the old cliche, "Don't judge a book by its cover."
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Bet a friend money that you can stop criticizing people for two weeks. Alternatively, offer to pay your friend a dime every time he catches you criticizing.
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If you are about to say something mean and insulting, wait ten seconds, think of being nice, and give that person a nice comment about his/her clothes, shoes, etc.
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Offer to help the person. This may encourage you to see the good in them and not the bad.
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If all else fails, try not to judge the next person.
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Before you judge, think about how you feel when you know you are being judged. Do unto others as you would have others do unto you.
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If you really can't stop, go see a therapist.

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EditTips

Place yourself in their shoes. Imagine if you're judged just because you're being yourself.
Look yourself in the mirror, are you perfect? Yes, you're beautiful, but you're not perfect.

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Categories: Managing Conflict and Difficult Interactions

Recent edits by: Teresa, Veracious, Tryme2

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Español: Cómo dejar de juzgar y criticar a la gente

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