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Dealing with mean people can be hard since it seems like they're out to get under your skin. Sometimes they succeed. This article will offer some advice for rising above their antics.

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Steps

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    Be polite at all times. It's a bad idea to become mean when someone insults you. The best idea when dealing with a mean person is to be polite and calm because that is the only way to stay above them. You cannot be something you try to preach is wrong.
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    Ask them why are they being mean. They usually have no reason other than enjoyment so by asking them you will make them think. They will probably come up with some lame excuses, such as "I don't like you" or "You are gay". By that they are only proving how unintelligent they are. Ask them what did you ever do to them. You probably did nothing so by asking this kind of questions you keep their mouths closed. Do not under any circumstance insult them back. You will achieve nothing and will only prove you are as primitive as they are. Present some arguments to their blind hate.
    • If they tell you an actual reason as to why they are being mean then you should ask them to talk about this like mature people without any insulting. Maybe it is all just a misunderstanding.
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    Make fun of yourself. Making fun of yourself will take away ability to insult you. If they laugh at you saying you have big ears then say something like "I wish I could at least fly with them if I have to have them." Even if it hurts you it doesn't matter because being aware and accepting your mistakes makes you more mature and more likeable to people around you. The bully won't be able to insult you if you do it yourself. Just remember, making fun of yourself doesn't mean hating yourself, so don't take it too far.
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    If a person doesn't stop making fun of you: Sometimes people just don't stop. In that case, say something like "I have heard all those things before, don't you have anything better to do with your time?" That will make you look more intelligent and mature than them. Tell them that insults only mean something when they come from a person that actually matters, and hearing things from them doesn't really hurt you.
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    Don't let them hurt you. People who enjoy making other people suffer aren't worth anything. So why would insults from a person like that mean anything to you?
    • Some insulting can actually benefit you if you take it as constructive criticism. Sometimes you can find some truth even in blindest hate. If someone says you are a lazy person who does nothing all day then maybe you should do something with your life. If someone says you are dirty and stink then take a shower. But do it with positive energy, don't hate yourself.
    • Remember, seeing you sad is exactly what they seek, so don't let them get that sick satisfaction. Be calm, polite and mature and they will stop eventually.
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Tips

  • Be polite, never start insulting them back, it solves nothing and makes you exactly what you hate them for.
  • Try asking them what the problem is. Sometimes things can be solved in a polite manner and it only takes one polite person to do so.
  • Don't let them hurt you. People who insult others are usually nobodies, so why should you care about anything they say.
  • Don't become aggressive. The last thing you want is to get into a fight. And even winning a fight doesn't make you any more right.
  • Face the things they say. Acknowledge your weaknesses, it takes a strong and mature person to do so.

Warnings

  • Do not swear!

Article Info

Categories: Dealing with Bullying

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