How to Be Confident and Chatty when You Have a Disability
Everyone on this earth is born with at least one disability. It may not be visible in some people but, in some, it is clearly seen. And for them, whose weaknesses are visible, it is very difficult to handle when people ignore them or simply make fun of them. But not any more! Here's something that you can do to feel more confident about yourself and cope with these difficulties....
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1Be dedicated to your work. As you are hated or ignored by everyone, it is more likely that you have very less confidence in yourself. Take up a task and excel in it. For example: If you are a student, earn good grades (if possible, As) in all your subjects. You can also go for volunteering for any social cause or any big event. This will make you confident enough to face people and will create a good image of yours among everyone!Ad
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2Express yourself. Now you have got some base to start with! Even after this, if no one comes to talk to you, start a chat all by yourself! You can do it just by saying 'hi' or 'can i help you?' or 'What's up?'. Remember, you must be cheerful and confident enough just to speak out these words. If you can do that, you will definitely get a good response.
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3Find someone who is in difficulty and give them the best help that you can offer. Remember, if you are doing something good, you will be surely noticed! Outcome: You will get a friend and people will realize how good you are!
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4Give people good compliments. Yes, this definitely helps. If you see someone being good at what they are doing, be the first to point out that! This will make people more eager to listen to you!Ad
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- Never ever feel underestimated or ignored because you are special and that's why you are here on this earth to make a difference....
- If someone has been mean to you, forget it and make a fresh start! Remember, WHO STARTED A FIGHT is not important....BUT WHO ENDED IT definitely is....!!
- But this does not mean that if the people are AGAIN mean to you, even if you are innocent, you should forgive them! Ask them the reason for their rude behavior, make them understand their mistake peacefully. This will make them realize that you too are a normal person like them and you cannot be taken for granted simply.
- Don't let negative thoughts get over you..take deep breaths occasionally or read some inspirational quotes or books. This helps!
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- Don't give up in between. If you do so, you will ultimately lose your image that you earned so far...
- Never ever tell a lie until it is die hard necessary!
EditThings You'll Need
- A VERY STRONG WILLPOWER!!
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