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What’s the last thing you posted on your Facebook status update? Have you Tweeted today? Do you know what you’re telling the web world, and furthermore, your online community? It’s important to consider your desired end result with these alluring announcements. You should be looking to communicate, not just be heard. Here are a few steps on how to make small talk with others in cyberspace.

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    Establish a purpose before you post. Are you just announcing something or are you open to a dialogue? For example, if you want to let people know you’re taking an exotic vacation, it’s better to engage your network. Try something like, “Just booked a ticket to India. Anyone have hotel or restaurant recommendations?”
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    Don’t over share. T.M.I (too much information) on the World Wide Web is tasteless. When you share too much, people stop asking questions and it’s as if you’re simply looking for a reaction rather than a discourse. An Internet interaction, with the same depth as a face-to-face conversation, should be the goal.
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    Apply normal small talk rules. Primarily, avoid controversial topics (politics, religion, etc.) in such a diverse and public forum. Unless, of course, you are willing to experience feedback and varied responses. If you feel compelled to stir up your social network, try posing a question such as “What does everyone think about the new health care initiative?” Your neutral headline will be less controversial and this will keep you within the boundaries of electronic etiquette.
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    Let people know about major, not minor, events in your life. Events like getting a new house, a marriage proposal, a college acceptance, a job promotion, the birth of a child, etc. are fine to share with the cyber community. However, it’s advisable to let those closest to you know more personally so they don’t find out the same way as someone you haven’t spoken to in three years.
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    Don’t be so self-important. It’s fine to promote an accomplishment like getting an article published or a product you support, but keep sponsorships to a minimum. Self-endorsement can come across as self-indulgent.
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