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How to Get Multiple Admirers
Love the thrill of having tons of admirers? Feel like no one likes you these days? Read on and learn to be a siren.
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1Be a lady. Though it may sound easy, not every girl is a lady these days. You must:
- Be polite to EVERYONE. This includes men and women because everyone notices how you treat them. Use all manners including chewing with your mouth closed and keeping your legs together whilst sitting.
- Don't talk behind people's backs. They will get the impression that you are two-faced and not so trustworthy.
- Appreciate favors. Others don't HAVE to do kind things for you. A princess will always be gracious and kind.
- Filter what you say and how. Cursing, sexual terms and jokes, and a loud voice are inappropriate unless the guys you're with like that in a girl.
- Filter what you say and how. Cursing, sexual terms and jokes, and a loud voice are inappropriate unless the guys you're with like that in a girl.
- Appreciate favors. Others don't HAVE to do kind things for you. A princess will always be gracious and kind.
- Don't talk behind people's backs. They will get the impression that you are two-faced and not so trustworthy.
- Be polite to EVERYONE. This includes men and women because everyone notices how you treat them. Use all manners including chewing with your mouth closed and keeping your legs together whilst sitting.
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2Be unique. Be the girl that sticks out in her own mystical way. Guys will love the chase.
- Don't tell boys more than what they ask for. They'll follow up if they want. It's not your problem. (Or so they think.) This will make them think about you more often. EXAMPLE: "What did you do last weekend?" What should be said: "Not much/ I was grounded." What shouldn't be said: "I was SOOO bored because my stupid brother who is eleven decided to get me grounded for doing this and that!!! OMG uhhhhggg I hate life and my family!!"
- Bring out the best in you. Use your talents, quirks, and stories to tell (at the right times). Do you have a quiet voice? Use it! Men will have to come closer to you to hear and it's a very feminine thing. How's your vocabulary? Use it! "Actually, I happen to adore the classical era of music." He'll be like, "uhhh she's pretty."
- Instead of looking bored and boring, look like you're deep in thought. Look slightly upwards at a light or count the lights, windows, anything really. Just focus on it. Add a slight smile. Especially when you think a guy is looking. It will make your thoughts look deeper and your eyes look bigger with a shine.
- Bring out the best in you. Use your talents, quirks, and stories to tell (at the right times). Do you have a quiet voice? Use it! Men will have to come closer to you to hear and it's a very feminine thing. How's your vocabulary? Use it! "Actually, I happen to adore the classical era of music." He'll be like, "uhhh she's pretty."
- Don't tell boys more than what they ask for. They'll follow up if they want. It's not your problem. (Or so they think.) This will make them think about you more often. EXAMPLE: "What did you do last weekend?" What should be said: "Not much/ I was grounded." What shouldn't be said: "I was SOOO bored because my stupid brother who is eleven decided to get me grounded for doing this and that!!! OMG uhhhhggg I hate life and my family!!"
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3Move gracefully. Any time you touch a boy, make it count. Your hands should be gentle and you can linger a touch of his arm. Each touch is powerful so don't be rough or over do it. Before looking like a loner, move rather quickly so you never look bored. Class starts fifteen minutes from now? Walk at a decent pace to the office or to friends and then just ask the office lady about her day, or talk to your friends. Don't be caught at a dull moment. Sit up straight, keep your head up. When a guy or guys try to talk to you, look the way you were going quickly, like, "I hope I have time to spare." Even if you're not going anywhere, so they could be like, "Yes! She stopped what she was doing for me! SCORE." Guys really notice the way a girl walks. -
4You knew it was coming: Look good. No matter how many guys say it doesn't matter. It does. We're not here to tell you to lose weight, though. Just wear clothes that look good on you. Wear your favorite outfit the first time you meet someone. This will exude confidence, which is all we could ask of you. If you don't like how you look, how could all the guys? Make your head the prettiest thing if you don't like your curves. Do up your hair when you can, add some gentle make up, and voila! The most beautiful girl in the world: You! But don't stop there!
- Smell good. Bring out the perfume, scented body wash, scented lotion, scented make-up? Okay not too sure about the makeup, but you get the gist. Only spray the perfume once for a slightly scented trail of beauty when you walk or hug a guy. Don't intoxicate him with essence.
- Feel good. If you feel more confident when you shave, do it! Get some acne creams with Benzoyl Peroxide, some moisturizing creams, and a nice conditioner for your silky hair!
- Feel good. If you feel more confident when you shave, do it! Get some acne creams with Benzoyl Peroxide, some moisturizing creams, and a nice conditioner for your silky hair!
- Smell good. Bring out the perfume, scented body wash, scented lotion, scented make-up? Okay not too sure about the makeup, but you get the gist. Only spray the perfume once for a slightly scented trail of beauty when you walk or hug a guy. Don't intoxicate him with essence.
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- Surprise the guys occasionally. Once a week, for example, wear something completely eccentric, say something like (that's what she said) or even tease the guy or be serious with him (depending on how you usually treat him). It will keep him hooked.
- Don't over-do the walk. People will think you're trying too hard.
- If they're not interested, neither are you. Move on, don't show hurt.
- YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. You just need to show off that number one quality.
- Be yourself. It's hard to do when you're trying to get more guys, but don't lose touch with reality. Someone's bound to like you the way you are.
- Being unique is different from showing the guy your shark teeth photo collection, don't be freaky.
- There are plenty of other wikiHows on the matter that will help. See "Related wikiHows" at the bottom.
- Don't be a drag or boring, either! Let your personality shine at the right time. Once a bunch of guys are comfortable around you, you'll get the feeling. See who potentially likes you and show them the aspect of your personality that will appeal specifically to them.
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