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Two Methods:Recognize that you are an IntrovertDiscover Yourself

A lot of people today are of the opinion that being an extrovert is the right thing to do, or that introverts need to fix themselves and become extroverts. But there are many benefits to being an introvert, and you can play on these strengths.

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EditMethod 1 of 2: Recognize that you are an Introvert

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    Learn what an introvert is. An introvert is someone who gets their energy and lifeblood from being alone. On the other hand, extroverts get this energy from being around others.
    • Let's address a common and socially acceptable stereotype: that introverts are shy. This is not true. Shy people hate social interaction and are afraid of it. Introverts often view it as a waste of time unless there's an emergency. So you see shy people and introverts are not the same.
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    If you are an introvert, try and still have friends and social interaction. However, since your energy comes from you and you give it away in social interaction, feel free to say no to parties, shopping trips and football games whenever you need a rest.
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    Develop hobbies and pastimes that you can do at home. You will spend a lot of time there so you should make it a place you enjoy.
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    Build companionship in ways that are comfortable to you. Maybe you prefer to have a few key friends, rather than a wide social circle. Maybe you have certain people you're more comfortable hanging out with or doing certain hobbies with; it's okay to stick within that habit.
    • Getting a pet is a good option. It will give a shoulder to cry on if your human friends are busy.

EditMethod 2 of 2: Discover Yourself

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    Use your solitary time to discover what makes you tick and what motivates you in life. Some extroverts spend so much time interacting, they forget to know themselves. One benefit of being an introvert is that you have more alone time for this. Take time each day to get to know yourself a little better.
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    Know your limits. Maybe you can go to that party, but the mall trip the next day is a no. Every introvert has different limits. Know when to say no.
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    Learn to be comfortable. This is who you are. There are a lot of great introverts. Maybe you'll be the next one!
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  • Making a few close friends is usually preferred by introverts over a ton you barely know
  • Don't let your friends pressure you in to things that you don't want to do. If they pressure you, they're not your real friends.

EditWarnings

  • Do not just shut yourself off from the world. There's a difference between being an introvert and being totally isolated; it's a careful balance.

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