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So there is that girl you're obsessed over, and you have a crush. Now you want to ask her out. Wait! You are too shy to ever do that? Don't worry, you're definitely not alone. Use these tips, and get this girl of your dreams!

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Steps

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    Don't wait for her to make the first move. Chances are, that if she likes you, she feels shy too. (this is not always the same for all girls)
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    Tell your friends. Make sure and tell friends that won't gossip about you to people you wouldn't want knowing about your crush. These friends can help you get this girl, so be nice to them.
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    Talk to her friends. You don't need to even develop a friendship with them. Just talk, even if you feel shy. Just don't create a good enough relationship that it would make your crush jealous.
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    If you can, casually sit with her in class. Your friends come in here: have your friend sit one chair away from your crush, then sit in between them, then you can strike up a conversation, like how hard the homework is.
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    Be friends. Crack a joke. Show her your drawing. Demonstrate your soccer kick.
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    Ask her casually if she'd like to play a game at lunch. (MASH is perfect!)
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    Ask her out! Do it in private, so that she doesn't feel pressured to give a certain answer.
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Warnings

  • She may reject you, so be prepared.
  • If she doesn't want others to know that you're together and you tell, well, sorry your relationship is probably done.

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Español: invitar a salir a una chica si eres un chico tímido (pre adolescentes), Русский: пригласить девушку на свидание, если вы стеснительный парень (для подростков), Português: Pedir uma Garota em Namoro Sendo um Garoto Tímido (Pré Adolescentes)

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