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So, your siblings hate each other. Not much you can do about it really. If you are under 16, this is really your parents problem not yours. It can be distressing to be part of a family where there is conflict though, so if you need some help dealing with this kind of issue, this steps may help.

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    Talk to your parents. Your parents may be able to talk your siblings out of hating each other. They are the ones who raised all of you, so they should be able to untangle any situation you as a family come across. They are the leaders, and it is time for them to take action. If you live with just your mum, or just your dad, then still talk to them. Not all families have two parents. One parent can deal with the issues two can, it may just take a little longer.
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    Talk to your siblings. Ask them why they have so much hatred towards each other. It feels so good to just let out all of your feelings. Maybe if they tell you what is wrong you can tell them how they both feel about one another and you can resolve the problem.
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    Let time pass. As time goes, they could forget and in the future it could just be something they laugh about.
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    Never be pulled into arguments or asked to choose sides. This is not your problem, it's theirs. So why should you have to be involved?
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    Try to get them to do an activity together that forces them to become closer.
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    Don't give up. If you search hard enough, you can find a solution to why they have such a hatred for each other. If you keep moving along, everything will go back to the way it was.


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